Neath rugby club owner Matty Young has apologised for a social media post on the club’s official X channel which stated a forthcoming game “is definitely not for girls”.
The since-deleted post prompted strong condemnation before a subsequent posting attempted to justify the initial message.
In a fresh statement, also issued on social media, Young wrote: “I sincerely apologise for any offense caused. That was never my intention and in no way reflects any attitudes within Neath RFC.
“I take full ownership as the club owner and author of the post. The idea from the start was to shine a light on the casual misogyny that still exists in parts of rugby and, more importantly, to champion the incredible women and girls’ rugby players who represent our club with passion, skill, and dedication.
“I now recognise that the initial post did not effectively convey this message, and for that, I am sorry. I would also like to apologise to Llangennech RFC, who had no prior knowledge that this was our opening strategy. We look forward to welcoming them to The Gnoll.”
Young’s statement continued: “In light of the response, I have decided to delay the release of the intended follow-up videos to take the time to reflect, listen, and ensure that we are delivering the right message in a way that fully aligns with our values as a club – one that is committed to inclusivity, respect, and the celebration of women’s rugby.
“Most importantly, I want to make sure this message comes from the women and girls of our club, in their voices.
“I can categorically assure you that our commitment to women’s rugby remains steadfast, and we will continue to champion all participation in rugby.”
The original, controversial post – which included the hashtag ‘#NotForGirls’ and ended with the message: “Stay tuned… Not everything is as it seems” – was taken down on Monday evening.
The Welsh All Blacks later posted a second message defending the initial post which began: “Now that we have your attention…Forget the noise. Forget the outrage. Let’s talk about real change”.
In a lengthy explanation Neath said they want to provoke debate and challenge misconceptions about women’s rugby. It also apologised for “any confusion or upset caused”.
The wording of a post on their X account for the match against local rivals Llangennech at The Gnoll on Friday, 28 March prompted the Welsh Rugby Union (WRU) to say: “We asked Neath to remove the post as soon as possible and of course do not condone the sentiment it contained.”
Neath were also condemned by players and politicians.
Former Wales captain and current Wales Under-18s head coach Siwan Lillicrap, external writing on X: “I can’t believe my eyes – shame on you @neathrfc! Ignorant, unacceptable and inappropriate.”
Tonia Antoniazzi, external, Labour MP for Gower and former Wales international, wrote on social media: “Disappointing for a club with such a great history and legacy which has inspired so many women and girls to want to play and have played!
“Be good to see it taken down with an apology @neathrfc.”
Wales international Cerys Hale, external wrote: “Well at least the comments section has given me some hope!
“Who the hell thought this type of marketing was acceptable?! Absolutely appalling from Neath RFC, I hope anyone associated are completely embarrassed.
“If anyone questioned why we feel the need to shout about equality.”
And former Wales wing Lowri Norkett-Morgan, external posted: “Absolutely disgusting
@neathrfc. All those girls at @NeathPanthers not welcome in their own club. Shame on you.”
